Sometimes it takes a while to understand what you are feeling or how you are feeling? It honestly happens with me all the time. It takes a while to soak that feeling in. Many times things don’t go my way or the way they are supposed to be. And I am not OK with it. It must be happening with many of you as well. But do you accept the fact that you are actually not ok? Or you keep convincing yourself that you are. 

We all live in a life where we have responsibilities of jobs, parents, families, friendships & relationships. And with all of that, situations occur when we are not OK with something or the other. How often are we able to show it to the person who made us feel that way? I personally felt that there are days I know it is not OK and I know it

Yes, it is not a wonderful feeling, I agree with it. It gives me pain. But does it make me feel weak? Hell no! We all have feelings and emotions and they don’t make us weak. It is a positive sign that we are alive. Going through it will only heal it. In the end, you will come out way stronger than you ever imagined. And you will come out of it, trust me. 

Love yourself, without your flaws, you wouldn’t be you

Maybe I don’t know what you are dealing with right now. And you must be thinking it is way too easy to write without experiencing what you are going through. But all we can do is try. Try to reach out to people who love you and support you instead of shutting yourself from the world. I know it is a tough time when you are not OK. 

As you know life goes on and so we have to do our everyday chores. Take all the time you need, but remember the one who loves you won’t be happy seeing you this way. They would want you to be happy in your life. The problems in our lives are like washing machines. They wash, rinse and spin us around. But in the end, we come out cleaner, brighter and better than before. 

IT IS REALLY OK, TO BE NOT OK!

It’s okay to :

  • make mistakes
  • have bad days
  • be less than perfect
  • do what’s best for you
  • be yourself
  • think about yourself
  • have weak moments and bad days
  • pray to god to get rid of your problems
  • be awake and cry at night
  • text your bestie a long text stating you are not ok
  • be on our own and not lead by example
  • have confusion and not have everything figured out
  • feel weak at times and not being so strong
  • live with flaws & not have the perfect body, weight, skin 
  • not be the best cook
  • not be the perfect father/ mother/ son-in-law / daughter-in-law

You simply don’t need to be perfect. It is ok to feel what you are feeling. No matter what the world or the people around you keep telling you. Simply breathe and look around. Start appreciating even the problems. God gave you those problems for a reason. Maybe you are unable to see that right now in life, but be grateful for your problems. You are your best judge. No one knows you better than you. 

The true strength is in pulling oneself up

Allow yourself to feel those feelings. Don’t allow your sadness to take over you. Be honest with yourself. If someone tries to make you smile or encourage you don’t shut them out. They care about you. Try to process everything and think about why you are feeling the way you are feeling. 

Life is too short to waste it by being sad. Love yourself and realize your self-worth. Discover yourself and find a new passion. Be with people who make you happy. Watch your favorite show or listen to your favorite song. Find a reason to smile and stay happy. Start believing in yourself more. The opinion of others really doesn’t matter. 

Be Imperfect!

Once you have accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you. 

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