“Loving yourseld isn’t vanity. It is sanity”
Katrina Mayer
We live in an era where heartbreaks have become so common and most of these especially happen in this month of Valentine’s Day. It is sad to see our friends or loved ones go through a break-up. These situations and thoughts make you negative and you feel afraid to love again.
It is completely ok to fall out of love. Consider yourself very lucky if you find your soul mate in the first go. But the people who do not meet their soul mate in the first go have to go through breakups until who is meant to be, finally comes along. When we fall out of love, why is it so hard to trust again? Why do we have a fear of falling in love again?
Please give life a second chance
You clearly deserve a second chance. Yes, there must be a hundred thoughts in your mind and you must be even thinking that it’s very easy to say or write these things. But the person who goes through it only knows. Honestly, I have been in your shoes too.
Someone once told me, whatever happens, happens for good. When I was at that stage, I tried so hard to look for that good but I just could not find it. But now being married and falling in love, when I look back I really thank God that he did what was best for me. He sometimes doesn’t give us all that we want. But he gives us what is truly best for us. I am so much happier now. I love my husband to the moon and back. He loves me the way I am and accepts me with all my positives and negatives.
Start loving yourself
He not only made me a better person but he made me fall in love with myself even more. I love the life I have now. It would have been so different if I would have been stuck in the past. Why are we so afraid to fall in love with ourselves? Do you feel that you need someone to make you feel loved? Do we need to change ourselves?
Just give it a thought. If you don’t love yourself truly, how do you expect the other person to love you? Simply accept yourself and realize your self-worth. You are worth it! If a person left you, for whatever reason, it is his/her loss, NOT YOURS. You have not come on this earth to just please people or suffer from heartbreak. You are way too important and it is high time you realize it. You are amazing just the way you are.
Yes, we feel very stuck in certain situations or in general life. But, life doesn’t wait for anyone or anything. While feeling depressed and sad, you are wasting so much time in your life. Remember to love yourself, take care of yourself, pamper yourself and everything else will fall into place. Your special someone will take out time for you, love you the way you are and be there with you in your good & bad times.
But before falling in love with anyone, love yourself!
“If you have the ability to love, love yourself first”
Charles Bukowski
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