I believe in second chances. Do you? Although, I completely agree that starting over is difficult. For some people maybe it is impossible. The pain you feel when people hurt you is something that you don’t want to go through again. But can you live with the fear of not getting hurt again? Can you live alone all your life?
In our everyday lives, we go through a lot of situations. Some situations we like while others we don’t like. Our mood determines how our day will be. We spend so much time at our school/college/workplace. That place is like our second home. The friends/colleagues we meet every day are also responsible for our mood. If all is going well we will have a good mood and our day will be wonderful. But if things are not going well, say if you have a fight with a friend/colleague, you will have a gloomy day. Life will feel dull and you will be gloomy. You won’t even feel like going to your school/college/workplace.
The same is with Love – ‘A beautiful feeling’
When you are in love, the world is suddenly beautiful. You like everything, it is like you are floating, you keep smiling for no reason, you love the feeling of being in love. You love, take care, fight, adore, face challenges together as a couple. You give each other your time. You grow mature in your relationship and understand each other better.
“You know you are in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams”
Dr. Seuss
But sometimes, Life can be unfair. Heartbreaks do happen. The people you had trusted so much, break your heart. The one person whom you loved like no other, breaks your heart into a million pieces. The friends you had asked for help, turn their back on you. These days because of very low patience levels in our generation, marriages are failing. No one wants to admit one’s mistake. In earlier times, our parents and grandparents worked really hard on relationships or being together.
To everyone out there who is having a tough time or a tough life, please remember this too shall pass. If it happened with you once, it does not mean it will happen again. It is hard to trust again, but not impossible. Maybe the person who left you went for good. Everything that happens, happens for a reason. Even if sometimes we are unable to see the reason. Later in life, God does show you why exactly did such an event happen.
YOU DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE
You are also given this life like others to live it fully. Please don’t give up on yourself. Because of certain toxic people who hurt you deeply don’t give up on love. You will hesitate to meet a new person or open up to him/her. But take that chance, give it time. No doubt you will find it difficult to trust the other person as the past might haunt you. But open up and let it flow. You have no clue what life has in store for you.
But for that, you need to forgive yourself and your past and imagine letting it go far-far away. Everything that happens isn’t your fault. You need to burn all the things you still have of him/her or give away stuff that he/she gave you as that will only make it worse seeing it every day.
“I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they’re right, you believe lies so you can eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together ”
Marilyn Monroe
You need to fight for yourself
Remember, your life does not end if things don’t work out. Maybe it was meant to be like that so that you could learn something from it. Life does go on and it is definitely not a bed of roses. But, give love a chance, you deserve that chance. Fall in love once more. Begin your life again. All of us need someone. Our life is long, it cannot be lived alone. Your life will seem meaningless without love in it. Love your friends and love your families. Touch and hold the person you love while you still can.
Slow down and think it is never too late to begin again, to forgive someone, to have a dream, to meet someone or to start loving yourself. It is never too late! A broken heart also deserves a second chance, a new beginning and a lasting one. Give it time to grow stronger even if it had failed earlier, make it so strong that it lasts for a lifetime.
“There are plenty of ways to die, but only love can kill you and keep you alive to feel it”
Leo Christopher
Link exchange is nothing else except it is simply placing the other person’s webpage link on your page at appropriate place and other person will also do same for you.
🙂